Post by Quantumly on Oct 27, 2023 11:30:31 GMT -5
Three Ways to Kill the Love and Affection
Starting a new relationship is a wonderful thing and if things go right, it can last a long time.
Most long-term relationships are based on love, trust and honesty. Even though honesty is very important in a relationship, sometimes can be hurtful to both parties. There are some things that can't tell your partner because it may hurt them or make them change their pristine opinion of you.
For example, the bad things you've done in the past, a truth that will make them feel bad and so on.
Even if you love them to the moon and back, and you have gotten pretty close, these truths that can affect your entire relationship from that moment on, it should be kept inside. Sometimes you can best show your love by keeping your mouth shut.
So, before you start to be too confident and direct, you should take a look at these things that may destroy your relationship, especially if they were obvious when you first met.
Don't criticize
This is one of the worst things you can do to someone. If she sees that someone is trying hard to do the things to the best of their ability and you begin to criticize, your partner will feel disappointed that you don't know to appreciate them for the fact that they are trying their best. So, instead of being critical, get over it, and offer your help since you know how to do it better. Maybe next time they will do better, thanks to you.
Don't tell them your family doesn't like them
Even if your family does dislike your mate, it is better to not tell them because it can cause anger and insecurities in the person and cause unnecessary problems in the relationship. This information will create tension between them and your family.
Don't talk about your ex
Don't ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with things you did with your ex. It is hurtful and it makes it seem as if you are still thinking about that person.
Also, you know that you should never compare your mate to your ex, in bed. This will cause your new love to feel extra bad to find out that the other was better in bed. No one likes to be compared to another, in any aspect.
Keep the love alive.
