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Post by Quantumly on Sept 28, 2023 20:28:48 GMT -5
Let Go of the Past and Start Over
When couples first get together, everything is brand new and exciting. New couples overlook or don't even notice the little annoying things the other person does.
However, after a few years together, these annoyances become front and center in the relationship. Instead of hearing, “You look beautiful,” they might hear “Why don't you ever pick up your clothes?”
Romantic Valentine's Day Plans for CouplesIf this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each of you did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place.
Then together, make a commitment to forget about the problems and start over. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this, every day. It will not automatically be easy, but it is possible.
Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with the flirtation. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside.
It will take some time so be patient.Romantic Valentine's Day Plans for Couples
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